I hate it when people are not independent. Just becoz you know other poeple can help you in the end...you take things for granted and hope that everything will work on it's own. Pleaselah....live up to yourself and put higher expectations. Depending on other people will not bring you anywhere. Instead, you'll be stuck right where you've started and other people will go further.
I was taught to be independent since I was like 5 years old. Anything and everything that I want, I have to get it myself with no help from others. I need to learn how to be resourceful in order for me to achieve what I want. That is why I hate people who depend on other people so much!!! I mean, if you have worked so hard..and at the end...you can't do it by yourself..it's ok. But...with no effort?? It is just wrong!! Please lah...wake up. Not everyone will be there to help every time.
I also hate it when..a women thinks that she has to rely on men to get the jobs done and never had the guts to even learn to do it themselves. Come on lah..we are not living in the 50's. A lot of women nowadays even hold such a high position in an organization...and you are still stuck with that mentality?? I just don't get it!! I just don't. Yes....some things...you need men to carry it out...but for small things...that you can do yourself....take the time to learn for your own future benefit.