Tuesday, July 15, 2008

I Hate It When....

I hate it when people are not independent. Just becoz you know other poeple can help you in the end...you take things for granted and hope that everything will work on it's own. Pleaselah....live up to yourself and put higher expectations. Depending on other people will not bring you anywhere. Instead, you'll be stuck right where you've started and other people will go further.


I was taught to be independent since I was like 5 years old. Anything and everything that I want, I have to get it myself with no help from others. I need to learn how to be resourceful in order for me to achieve what I want. That is why I hate people who depend on other people so much!!! I mean, if you have worked so hard..and at the end...you can't do it by yourself..it's ok. But...with no effort?? It is just wrong!! Please lah...wake up. Not everyone will be there to help every time.


I also hate it when..a women thinks that she has to rely on men to get the jobs done and never had the guts to even learn to do it themselves. Come on lah..we are not living in the 50's. A lot of women nowadays even hold such a high position in an organization...and you are still stuck with that mentality?? I just don't get it!! I just don't. Yes....some things...you need men to carry it out...but for small things...that you can do yourself....take the time to learn for your own future benefit.

8 comments:

shelly said...

aku tak tau la whether apa aku nak ckp ni berkaitan ke tak dgn entry nih tapi aku nak cakap jugak..hahaha...aku paling menyampah kalau nampak lelaki bawak handbag gf/tunang/bini diorg..adakah perempuan2 anda itu cacat?agak spastik okkkkk senario itu...lelaki tuh pon nampak seperti agak bapuk jadian pada penglihatanku..hehehe

iena amoi said...

agak tak berkaitanlah. Tp....lebih kurang under topic yang sama..iaitu.."I hate it when..." ahahahaha. Aku kekadang soh gak laki aku bw handbag aku. Nak tau nape?? Sebab dia dah sumbat segala mcm brg dia dlm tu...jd berat handbag aku..tau lah handbag aku besar. Tensi aku kekadang....eheheheh. Tp skrg, sejak dia dah tukar wallet yg senang carry....dah takde dah dia menyumbat segala benda...uhuhuhu

Carol Robert Gumbang said...

yessss...Shelly i agree. baik takyah ada handbag kan? or, baik bawak backpack je terus. *no offence*

aku rasa aku tau subjek dlm entry ini, hehe. adakah org ini yg ko geramkan aritu?

iena amoi said...

Iyer....iyer...orang itu lah. aarrrghhh!! Aku tension giler. Sangat tak suka.. nak vomit blood dah ni. Lemas dan rimas aku!!! Help!!!!

Nizam Abdul Rahim said...

emm..emm.., tapi saya dulu kadang2 bawak jugak handbag mak saya bila time gi shoping kak iena..! ahhh..tak kuasa nyahhh.. =P kepeh kepeh kepeh

iena amoi said...

ahahahaha...takpe bw mak punya. Dia org tua....pahala tu. ehehehe.. Baik nize...amin.

Diyanazman said...

ahahahhaa... kelakor giler komen Kak Shelly!
to me yg paling poyo these days ialah pompuan yg takde lesen kereta!!!!

walaupun dah tua bangka n gaji besar boleh tak pegi amik lesen kereta dan beli lah kereta sebijik supaya senang nak kesana sini tak payah nak suruh bf/hubby jadi drebar!!
grr!

iena amoi said...

Tulah.....there few that I know...kena tunggu hubby baru leh gerak gi mana2. Kalu hubby takde...lekat lah kat umah...or mana2 yg dorg nak melekat. hmmmm....but sumtime i pity these women....they can't do things on their own....sad.