Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Uish.....This is Crazy!!

Giler lah mamat nih. Dia berjaya kurung anak dia 24 tahun..and gave birth to 7 children. Crazy!!!


Info Oleh : Kosmo
SEORANG bapa mencetuskan kegemparan di Austria selepas mengurung dan merogol anak perempuannya yang disembunyikan selama 24 tahun sehingga melahirkan tujuh orang anak sebelum dibongkar kelmarin.

Bapa itu, Josef Fritzl, 73, kini ditahan oleh polis dan dia mengaku mengurungkan anaknya, Elisabeth Fritzl yang kini berumur 42 tahun.


Josef yang dibawa ke mahkamah semalam mendedahkan bahawa dia membina sebuah bilik kurungan bawah tanah di kediamannya di Amstetten untuk mengurung Elisabeth. Lelaki itu juga mengaku melakukan perbuatan sumbang muhrim dengan anaknya itu tetapi dia menegaskan tiada unsur paksaan. Sebelum ini, selama 24 tahun pihak polis menyangka Elisabeth melarikan diri dari rumah ketika berumur 18 tahun untuk menyertai satu kumpulan ajaran sesat.

Bagaimanapun, tragedi yang menimpa wanita itu terbongkar kelmarin selepas salah seorang daripada anak perempuan mangsa yang berumur 19 tahun sakit tenat dan Josef terpaksa membawanya ke hospital.

Para doktor kemudiannya merayu supaya ibu remaja itu tampil bagi memberikan lebih maklumat berhubung sejarah kesihatannya. Menurut polis, Josef kemudiannya membawa Elisabeth dan dua anaknya keluar daripada bilik kurungan buat pertama kalinya dalam tempoh 24 tahun dan memberitahu isterinya, Rosemarie bahawa anak mereka yang melarikan diri dahulu kini sudah pulang.

Namun, Elisabeth bersetuju membuat satu kenyataan kepada pihak polis selepas mendapat jaminan bahawa dia tidak akan berjumpa dengan bapanya itu yang didakwa menderanya sejak berumur 11 tahun. Menurut Elisabeth, tiga anaknya hasil hubungan sumbang mahrim yang berumur 19, 18 dan 5 tahun dikurung di dalam bilik itu sejak dilahirkan serta tidak pernah melihat cahaya matahari.

Wanita itu juga mendakwa telah melahirkan tujuh orang anak di bilik kurungan itu tetapi salah seorang daripadanya meninggal dunia ketika dilahirkan. Enam anaknya yang masih hidup adalah terdiri daripada tiga perempuan dan tiga lelaki yang kini berumur antara lima hingga 20 tahun.
Seorang jurucakap pendakwa raya, Gerhard Sedlacek berkata, bilik kurungan yang digunakan untuk mengurung wanita itu berukuran 60 meter persegi dan mempunyai ketinggian 1.70 meter serta dilengkapi perabut seperti sebuah flat.

Bilik kurungan itu bersambung dengan garaj dan hanya boleh dimasuki melalui satu pintu yang dilengkapi dengan kunci elektronik serta kod rahsia. Akhbar Kronen-Zeitung menggambarkan Josef sebagai seorang nelayan dan dihormati oleh jiran dan penduduk setempat. Bagaimanapun, perwatakan baik lelaki itu sebenarnya adalah satu topeng dan dia seperti raksaksa yang ganas di rumahnya sendiri.

“Amstetten kini berada dalam kejutan dan kami bersimpati dengan nasib yang menimpa mangsa serta anak-anaknya,” kata Datuk Bandar Amstetten, Herbert Katzengruber.Beberapa ujian DNA juga akan dijalankan bagi memastikan sama ada Josef adalah bapa kepada enam anak mangsa. Pihak polis berkata, anak ketujuh Elisabeth meninggal dunia tidak lama selepas dilahirkan dan mayatnya telah dibakar. Josef kemudinya mengambil tiga anak mangsa yang terdiri daripada dua lelaki dan seorang perempuan sebagai anak angkat. Lelaki itu memberitahu isterinya dan pihak berkuasa bahawa ketiga-tiga bayi itu ditinggalkan oleh Elisabeth di pintu rumah mereka sejak beberapa tahun lalu. Setiap bayi yang didakwanya dihantar ke rumah mereka itu disertakan dengan sepucuk surat yang mempunyai tandatangan palsu Elisabeth yang mendakwa dia tidak mampu memelihara anaknya itu. Ketiga-tiga kanak-kanak itu pergi ke sekolah dengan menjalani kehidupan seperti biasa tanpa menyedari bahawa ibu dan tiga lagi adik beradiknya dikurung di rumah mereka. - Agensi

Deepest Sympathy And Condolence

This entry is a tribute to my ex university mate Ms Sandra. We were not that close but then, after reading the blog entry of my fren Carol, I felt very sad after reading it. The nearest relatives to me that passed away was my grandmother. That was already unbearable.


Sandra,

My deepest sympathy and condolence to you and your family. Hang in there and be strong. She will always be there in your heart.


I didn't know Sandra's mother...so here is Carol's entry.


When You're Gone
I was asleep when i received the sms from Sandra this morning.

"Mak ku dah xda kul 3.30am"
(translated: My mum passed away at 3.30am)


Right after reading the text, i was stunned. To make sure that i'm fully awake and get the message right. I read it again and again. Then, i felt so sad and sorry for her and the family. Her mum has been battling with the cancer since the year 2003/4 if i'm not mistaken. The aunt-in-law passed away on Mr Husband's convocation day, of the same sickness.


I could never imagine losing someone so dear. I cried like nobody's business for not speaking with my best friend before.


Aunty Rose was such a lovely mother. A patience, loving mother. She was there during my engagement party. In fact, i really want her to come for my wedding too. But, she was too ill to make it. Sand herself was supposed to be one of the bridesmaid but her mum was admitted to the hospital for lungs failure few days before my wedding. That very morning, when it happened, she sms'ed' me saying that she's looking forward to be my bridesmaid and she was so happy until that afternoon when her mum had breathing difficulties. However, on the wedding day, Sand took a bus from her hometown to Kuching just to attend the dinner reception. That was after asking her mum if it is ok for her to go and have to leave her for a day. The mum said ok. Ok, i barely cleary see what i'm typing now cos i'm crying. I'm feeling so helpless to not be able to be there.


To Sand and family, our deepest condolence. Our prayers are always be with you. May her soul rests in peace. You have been a great daughter to your mum and i'm sure she is so proud to ever have a daughter like you.

Monday, April 28, 2008

And Now....We Know

DUE TO THE SENSITIVITY AND SO MANY OF DIFFERENT INTREPERTATION WITH REGARDS TO THIS ENTRY......I THINK I BETTER DELETE IT. SORRY FOR THE INCOVENIENCE CAUSED. DIDN'T KNOW IT'S A HIT. UHUHUHUHU

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Hmmm....Not A Good Start

Yesterday evening, I felt like my gum is swollen....maybe because of lack of water. Ade ulcer kat gum...uwaaaa. Sgt sakit! But I ignored it. Last nite, I did not get a very good sleep. To begin with, I couldn't sleep until like 12.30 midnight...then my hubby's alarm clock went off at 2.00am. Yeah....of course to watch football..what else?? Being the insomniac that I am....an interrupted sleep means I have to start my sleep cycle all over again....sigh. Then woke up again at 7am to prepare hubby's breakfast and his clothing. Not that he can't do it all by himself....but I want to make sure....uhuhuhu.


After that, apa lagi....continue my cycle of sleep. Since my gum hurts....so I'm not really in the mood to do anything today. hmmm.....I even dream that I broke 2 or 3 of my teeth. When I woke up at around 1030am..I immediately call my mom. U know...most malay have this "kata orang tua2" thing. So I asked her....what's the probable meaning of the dream I had?? She said....if lower teeth..means someone younger than us died...and upper teeth....someone older. But then, it is just a superstitious thing of "kata orang tua2". Sure hope it didn't happen or will not happen. I had the dream after I slept again after 7am...so normally at that time...all dreams are mainan tido aje. uhuhuhu


But now, I have to get ready. I have an appointment this evening...uhuhuhu. Nak tak nak kena pergi jugak. Shit!! My gum hurts!! uwaaaa

Monday, April 21, 2008

Protocol oh Protocol

It has been more than a month since my hubby joined government agency and he is still adjusting to all the protocol in the government sector. Last weekend, for the first time I met my hubby's colleague at a futsal tournament. Even I can feel the awkwardness. Because of my hubby's level, everyone in the department has to call him Tuan or Encik and they called me Puan even though they are out of the office environment. The awkward thing is, when I tried to make a conversation with a person that is older than us, I do not know how to address them especially those who are lower level as they call me Puan. Silly isn't it?? I mean, last time I just call my boss by his initial...no salutation or what so ever. Maybe that is the difference of level of openness between this two sectors. We will still have to adjust to this protocol or maybe we'll just suck it in and have fun with it. Yerlah...bila lagi other people nak call us Tuan and Puan...wakakakakaka. Right?? So, might as well accept jer. uhuhuh. However, there are still other poeple who are at higher level....so we will have to do it also. eheheheheh

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Thank you!!!



We wish a million thanks to those who came to celebrate and share our most important memorable day with us. Your presence are most valuable to us. We also wish a million thanks and warmest gratitude to those who were involve directly in order to make the event a success especially to my Uncle Sanusi's Family, my dearest Aunty Mah, Uncle Lut and Kak Maria's family. Ninie, thank you for the hand bouquet and tent flower decor, couldn't have done it without you!! It is hard when you are the wedding planner and the bride at the same time.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

At Last....Everything is over...fuh!!

At last everything is over...seres lega siot!!!! A few months of hard days work to make my wedding reception a success. There was hick-ups here and there...but then...I can't control everything....kena terima jerlah. Tp maybe akan buat aku tak senang tido dlm masa 2-3 bulan lah...mengenangkan kecacatan yang ade. But so far, everybody said they've enjoyed the event.
Pictures?? Belom lagi....tunggulah nanti..bila cameraman dah siapkan. It was a very hectic 2 days for us. My ceremony was done on 12th April day and nite....and 13th was on my hubby side. Mlm tu jugak kitaorg balik to make sure everything on his side is ready and proper.


Tp kitaorg giler terkilan, there are few of our frens...yg silap date. Maybe I cannot blame them, coz I've change the date. But then, ade yg dah kasi kad and notis by hand....not to forget like 10 sms I've sent to them reminding that the event was on that particular date. My hubby even wrote an sms to a fren who said that he/she tought the wedding is next week...."Weh!!! Ko tak reti baca kad ker? Penat je hantar by hand kat ko!!". Yeah...it just takes not more than 5 minutes to open and read the card or the notice. Maybe some people are just like that. But still...it will take us sometime to absorb that fact....especially on frens that are close to us. How would you feel, if after all the effort you put and that happens to you? To those who didn't came because of other things....it's ok. We'll meet up sumtime.

Well...actual day wedding pictures blom ade....but you can view the pictures we've taken at D'Paris Image Studio @ http://fadzliena.fotopages.com/